像孩子一样委屈

常说随着孩子越长越大,父母会越来越像孩子,这话一点都不假。回国之前母亲常在电话里缠着我给她讲我每天周遭的事情,有时候她还会小孩子般的耍耍无赖。现在回来了,跟母亲在一起,发现老人真的是越长越像孩子。

昨天母亲做了一桌丰盛的饭菜,其中有一盘鱼,结果她吃了一口就不小心被鱼刺卡住了喉咙。喝醋无效之下我陪她去了医院,医生让她张嘴放松以便检查鱼刺位置,但是她却一直很紧张。我看着她紧张而无助,医生一次次提高嗓门让她放松,却不知道怎么安慰她。

今天晚上批评她做事的方式,我说话的方式不对,说得她闷闷不乐的,让我也不知如何是好。

大人跟孩子的关系果真是马上就要颠倒了,一些东西,它怎么来就怎么走。小时候收到了关爱呵护,现在需要同样返还;彼时付出了心血,也适时回收了。

Opinions

Positive thoughts today:

  1. I made a few slides this morning and found myself to be more efficient in preparing slides that expected. Also I managed to find the company template and icons for making computer networking slides. They make life much easier. And, Ericsson icons looks nicer than Cisco ones. They give a cleaner look and are easier to change the color and to scale.
  2. During lunch we discussed about alcohol, and I was told that good Vodka does not taste anything. This relieves me since the Russian Vodka I bought last year doesn’t have any taste and someone told me it might have been made from industrial alcohol and water. Nice to know that, even though I don’t drink.
  3. I’ve been listening to Johnathan Lee’s songs during work. His songs are very toughing. The more I listen to them, the more I like them.
  4. Saw a provoking African proverb on Google+: “If  you think you’re too small to make a difference, you haven’t spent a night with a mosquito.”
  5. It’s nice to have others sharing some of my feelings: guys never know what girls are thinking. (Picture link shared by Mohit and Nalin.) See picture here: http://thedoghousediaries.com/3291